Hello, I’m Annie
A few years ago my Mum died.
Which wasn’t totally unexpected . . . as she was nearly 99 and had lived an amazing, full and colourful life.
Even so, my world was turned upside down and I can remember feeling absolutely discombobulated.
There is so much to do after someone passes isn’t there?
Made all the more difficult as my brain just couldn’t focus on anything . . . and making any decision was nigh on impossible.
However, what emerged from all this grief has been life changing in so many ways.
Throughout her life, Mum had always been a church goer and supported her local church in many ways.
Yet, when she went into care, she never received a visit from any member of the clergy . . . and so when she died I was very unsure who to ask to do her service.
I can remember having this conversation with Mum’s Funeral Arranger so clearly.
And after I’d felt all of those ‘icky’ I couldn’t possibly do that sort of feelings . . . I said “YES”
And proceeded to create a ceremony that was full of love, laughter and joy as we celebrated the amazing life Mum had led.
“Why don’t you do it?”
It was a ‘send off’ that I know Mum would have enjoyed
That, not only told her story but incorporated many of the stories of times that we, as a family, had shared.
Which, as they were told, created laughter . . . as well as a few tears.
And the seed for being able to do this for others was sown too.
And took root as I secured a role as a Funeral Arranger offering support, guidance and advice to newly bereaved families.
Whilst bringing all of the skills and experience I’ve gained through a lifetime of supporting people and families with my various posts within the NHS.
And now . . . inspired by a fascinating and comprehensive Funeral Celebrancy Training with The Academy Of Modern Celebrants, I am here to support you in creating the unique and heart-filled ceremony that you desire for your loved one.
I think this lovely quote by Brené Brown is a great way of introducing a little more about
myself . . .
. . . so, here’s a few little ‘snippits’ about me!
I worked within the NHS for nearly 30 years!
Firstly as a Nurse where I specialised in A&E and Palliative Care . . . before training as a Midwife which is where I remained for the last 12 years of my NHS service.
Thinking back, wherever I worked, I was always supporting people through times of change.
Whether this was with couples becoming parents, patients being given a life changing diagnosis . . . or with families devastated by a sudden and traumatic loss.
I ran my own Complementary Therapy Clinics . . .
I’ve always been interested in complementary therapies and my departure from the NHS created the perfect opportunity to follow what ‘called me’ and I began learning a whole range of alternative medicine modalities.
Beginning with The Bowen Technique, soon followed by Reiki and Crystal Therapies, EFT, Energy Medicine or Shamanic Practitioner Training, Life Coaching and NLP.
A beautiful synergy of ‘both forms of medicine’ occurred when I was employed to share Energy Medicine Techniques with patients within an NHS Breast Cancer Clinic.
I really pay attention to the details . . .
My working background has taught me many things . . . perhaps, most importantly, that ‘getting things right’ is super important.
And this is something that has stood me in good stead both in my work as a Celebrant and in my role supporting women as they prepare for birth and motherhood. There isn’t the opportunity for a ‘second go’ . . . and, therefore, there’s no room for error.
I am ‘purely’ a Funeral Celebrant . . .
It was after I had written and delivered my Mum’s funeral service that I decided to train as a Funeral Celebrant. It felt absolutely ‘right’ to be able to offer families my support, experience and passion to create a fitting and memorable ceremony for their loved ones . . . just as I’d done for my Mum. And, really, I believe there is no greater honour than to do this for a loved one.
There are a variety of ways that we can do this - probably way more than you might think . . . and on my ‘Ceremonies’ page you can find a few ideas.
I worked as a Funeral Arranger within a family owned Funeral Directors . . .
And so I have experience in arranging funerals as well as being able to source those elements and ‘little touches’ that really make a difference for families who are wanting a memorable farewell ceremony for their loved one.
I’ve written a book . . .
This is for ‘Mums To Be’ and is a unique pregnancy guide which is a delightful and easy read.
It brings together all of my midwifery knowledge and experience along with all the aspects of ancient alternative medicine practices and modern coaching techniques that I have studied in recent years.
As such, it forms a comprehensive and unique accompaniment to support and empower women through this incredible time of transition.
It is called “Wise & With Child” . . . for the simple reason that women hold a deep wisdom through their very DNA that connects them to childbearing women back through time - and this piece of writing is to help remind them of this.
My little family means the world to me . . .
I have an incredible daughter and am blessed to be a Grannie too.
When I’m not working . . .
I love to be out in nature - whatever the weather (!) and enjoy walking my retired rescued greyhound- especially in the wildest landscapes, although she’s not always so keen when the weather’s rough!
My first job was . . .
After leaving school, I initially worked with horses and my dream was to get onto the British 3 Day Event Team!
That was until someone said . . . “when are you going to get a ‘proper’ job?”
Which was when I undertook my nurse training and began a long and rewarding career within the NHS.
I love to learn new things!
I’m definitely a ‘life long learner’ and am fascinated to see what will ‘show up’ to be learned next!
I am currently exploring all sorts of new techniques that I can incorporate into all aspects of my work to share with my clients. (Watch this space!)
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